A question of balance
Balance, a desirable point between two or more opposite forces.
Isn’t that a lovely image? When I imagine it, I feel calm and indeed I feel happy. And that’s why we, as mothers, work so hard to attain it.
We spend our days thinking - have I prepared a balanced meal? Have I balanced my check book? Is my work and personal life in balance? Heck…can I balance myself on roller blades?
When I have it, I know it and when I don’t I feel it.
Yes indeed balance is a useful concept.
But why would I go on about that word here…on a handbag website? Isn’t this just about luxury, beautiful craftsmanship and indulgences? Isn’t it about spoiling oneself. There is no balance here and there needn’t be. Handbags are simply a one-sided, out of balance treat. And we deserve it….
And yet, I don’t feel that way about the true BE woman. When I think of her I think of all her various dimensions. She is confident, and well rounded. She has many interests and many priorities and she is able to juggle them all. And as part of that, she finds her balance. A balance that is unique to her.
A few weeks ago a friend invited me and my family to be part of an important day - a day dedicated to ending breast cancer. We, and several others gathered at her house to simply wear pink, make and hand out pink lemonade and say thank you to the walkers who were raising money to end this terrible disease. I didn’t carry a handbag. My hair wasn’t done, and I didn’t worry about balance. I just did what I could for a cause that was greater than all of us.
My experience touched me deeply. So many people pulled together to attack this disease. Everyone was smiling and everyone was giving. It was a moving day. And then…we all left and went on with our lives.
The next day, as I picked up my beautiful BE bag, I reflected on why I was in a position to enjoy this luxury. It didn’t feel indulgent to wear my bag and it didn’t feel one-sided; because what I wear is a refection of how I see myself and more importantly, how I feel about myself, not a statement to show my worth. Yes I deserved to carry my bag that day. My life was in balance.
The author is an independent, stylish woman from Canada who manages to juggle a high-powered job with a global company with raising two gorgeous children and a very busy family life. We have always felt that she deserves a medal for the way she balances everything with apparent ease.
Jackie










